This is such a relatable piece. The different stages we go through when we begin writing from a place of loss within ourselves (however that loss occurred) are not easy to spot at first. For me writing was a very private outlet, a form of therapy almost, a way to process. I had an almost desperate need to share such writing but I never have - it was too personal - to descriptive - too raw and so to publish would have been an act of self-interest. Moving from ‘victim mindset’ to ‘survivor’ as healing and growth took place however my perspective and indeed writing style shifted. It was still personal, however reflective rather than descriptive. It’s aim shifted too, I became aware of what was triggered writing, what was emotional release and what could actually be useful or inspirational to others. The act of writing is a byproduct expression of being dominant in the right brain, same way drawing, music, my design career etc is. Tapping into writing is a way of letting true self out. If it benefits others in anyway great, but it’s primarily done out of enjoyment these days. The urge to write seems to grow stronger each day (certainly the past few months) which indicates it’s presence in my life is a good one, regardless of what happens to it once it’s left my finger tips.

Great article. Thanks for sharing 🙌